I’m Sorry

As I sit here in Grand Central Station and I see the day travelers bustling by, tired and wet, lugging their baggage wearily. They look famished, ripping their meal from the paper bag, dropping the bag to the ground. The female companion starts with big slurps, then starts chewing tentatively, concentrating- either on her chewing or whatever she’s reading on her phone.

Knowing how terrible the food is here, I want to yell out to her and warn her.

Spending Sunday Overlooking Central Park

 

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I woke up late to the sound of raindrops hitting against my windows.  “Should I or shouldn’t I?”  I wondered, as the thought of getting up didn’t really appeal to me.  I got up since I had to pee anyway, and since I was already in the bathroom, I decided to wash my face.  After I did that and brushed my teeth, I laid down with my face buried into my bedspread.  I laid there for about thirty seconds until I had enough energy to throw on a sweater that was hanging on my dining chair and put on some makeup really fast.  I was so late, but I was just going for the free breakfast anyway since I already had enough credits for the year.  I was walking toward the subway stop, debating on whether or not it was worth paying for a cab.  It wasn’t very far, but I had to transfer at 59th St which usually takes forever.  I got on the 6 train right when it was pulling into the station.  The 6 was no problem, but I had to wait awhile for the N train.

Sure enough, I was late and I wasn’t going to receive credit for the first two hours, but I decided to enjoy my breakfast out on the terrace.  The class was being held at the swanky New York Athletic Club and I decided to take full advantage of the gorgeous view of Central Park.  It was a beautiful morning, and the leaves were still in the midst of turning colors.  I enjoyed the fresh air and the breathtaking scenery with my complimentary bacon and eggs with coffee.  The apartment complex right across the street from the club had fully exposed windows in which one could look in to people’s apartments “Rear Window” style.  It didn’t seem to bother any of the residents that complete strangers could look in, and they seemed oblivious to that fact.  They probably focused more on their unobstructed and gorgeous views of the park.

I realized at that moment what a magical place it was, and although the club was old and a bit shoddy, I understood that the buildings with the best views of the park were constructed first, so the places with the best views are going to also be the old and shoddy ones.

It was sunny, but the clouds started to roll in.  I finished my bacon and eggs and went inside to hear the lecture.  There were astoundingly beautiful views of the park inside the banquet hall where the lecture was being held.  The sunlight shown through the floor-to-ceiling windows, and I could hear the speakers say something but I was too entranced by the magnificence of the room.  I then got distracted by the need to get more coffee and eyed the fruit and yogurt as I entered and passed the gray velvet curtain that separated the breakfast buffet and the banquet hall only to be greeted by a lady sitting at a table beside the curtain.  I was quickly drawn to the light-drenched windows and was willing to just stand there, stealing glances at the autumn-colored trees and horse-drawn carriages that were lined along the street below.

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The lady in charge of registration was nice enough to bring out an extra chair for me to sit, affixing me more permanently to the lecture that was going on before me.  I now had no choice.  I was stuck with listening to the lecture, but not without enjoying the view.

Two Guys Standing and Talking In The Subway

He had shades on.  His friend had a heavy five o’clock shadow.  You put their faces together and it would create this weird checkerboard pattern, they were so white.

Shades guy had on a pair of relaxed fit jeans and a wrinkly navy blue tee.  Shadow guy had an equally wrinkly pair of lime green khaki shorts with a light pink polo, collar turned up, of course.  Shades guy had the six pack of Coronas while Shadow guy had the bag of Tostitos.

I’m sure they were off to a meaningful night.

Never A Trendsetter

I remember my first day of kindergarten when my Japanese stepmother brought me to school.  The gym teacher, Miss Baker, told her that I was wearing the wrong shoes.  They were slip-ons with Japanese cartoon characters on them.  “She needs to wear sneakers with shoelaces,” she gently pointed to my small sockless feet.  My mother, bent over to look at my feet to politely observe what Miss Baker was pointing to, nodded her head and made a mental note of it, making sure to tell my father, who held the purse strings.

After we got approval from my father, we went to Kmart where we went to the sneaker bin in which my mother had me try on several different sizes.  They were made of stiff fake leather, but they at least had laces on them.  They were bright white with a big red logo on the side which read Pro with a tiny man in a running stance underneath it.  We went to the cashier and plopped them down on the counter to pay for them.

The next day, as I wore my brand new sneakers, I looked around at my classmates’ feet and was immediately embarrassed.  They had fancier shoes like Nikes and Adidas and Converse.  I went back home and begged my mom for some Nikes, but she said no.  I knew that I would never be like everybody else at school, never wearing the right labels like Levi’s or Lacoste or Polo.  For me, it was always Kmart or Sears.  Oh, how my parents loved Sears!

It wasn’t until high school when I was given a $200 clothing allowance for the new school year in which I could spend on anything I wanted that I finally got my first pair of Nikes.  We went to an actual athletic shoe store where a salesperson measured my shoe size with one of those shoe measuring devices and brought out a pair and laced them up right in front of me to try on.  They were white in nylon with a soft pink suede swoosh logo.  I was so happy.  We took them to the counter in the Nike logoed box where the sneakers were wrapped and stuffed in tissue.  We weren’t in Kmart anymore.

That was, ahem, a few decades ago, and by the time I went to college, Doc Martens and leather oxfords were the way to go.  It was also around the time when Nike was getting bad press for using child labor to make their shoes in their overseas factories, so being the socially conscious college student that I was, I joined the boycott of Nike and made it a point to not buy their sneakers.  Fast forward a couple more decades, and sneakers, or, athletic shoes as they are now called, are back in and Nike is all the rage again.  I bought a pair yesterday, a black pair that I can run in, but also wear as street shoes, and as I put them on today, I couldn’t help but admire how good they looked with my skinny jeans.

I have never been a trendsetter, and I got to this trend of an old classic a little late as usual, but at least it was a nice trip down memory lane.

 

 

 

 

 

 

When?

When does all the anxiety and dread disappear and

You are able to walk out with your head held high

Heart Swollen With Boldness and Fearlessness

 

When you have spoken your truth

Ill-Fitted Suit

I never realized how varied a man’s torso could be.  No wonder they need their suits tailored, even in this ready-to-wear age.

I’m on the subway, and two men in matching suits have their backs to me, the one on the right has wide shoulders and a narrow waist which makes his blazer stretched out on top and baggy and loose on the bottom.  They are talking about the wine-tasting event they are going to and their plans for later.  It sounds like they reserved a room at a hotel downtown somewhere.

The F train is one of the crappiest train lines in the subway system but its riders are the most polished hipsters with their perfectly coiffed hair and fitted vests reading the latest version of the New Yorker.  The matching suits guys get off at the West 4th St. Stop- the hub of  the West Village- home to NYU (although people would argue that NYU has taken over all of Downtown) and their academics, ultra chic intellectuals and artists.

I’m on my way to Prospect Park South- five minutes farther down the F line from Park Slope, the West Village of Brooklyn- for those that have been priced out of Park Slope or arrived too late, the urban sophisticates have spread down to there.  It’s a neatly kept neighborhood, but its buildings are not as architecturally appealing as those marvelous and well-known brownstones of Park Slope.  People are wealthy, but it isn’t filled with the same intensity, at least not at the outset.  Yes, maybe they are as obnoxious as Manhattan, but they have less opportunity to show it off.  I am the same, however.  I am small and quiet.  People always ask me if I’m okay.  Seriously, why do people always ask me if I’m okay?  No, I’m not okay, but it’s none of their business, and it’s not like they would care anyway.  I think I am going through an existential crisis right now, but I’m just in denial about it.

 

George

George Michael died on Christmas Day 2016, and my first reaction was, “Oh, well, another pop music icon from the ’80’s died.”  But I was surprised to realize when they were replaying all his hit songs that I knew every single lyric from all his songs.  I soon realized how great his singing talent was, and how great his songs were, and enough time had passed to realize how great, as tacky as they were, ’80’s pop music was.  I took it for granted that there was always great music blaring from the radio or from MTV, but those days are long gone.  Now, there are a LOT of bad singers out there, and they all sound the same and use the same music track behind their bad singing that I don’t even bother turning the radio on anymore.

No, I wasn’t a huge George Michael fan back then, because he was, to me, as a twelve year-old, a bit much.  Now, middle aged, I can ingest his lyrics and the topics of his songs a lot better.  I wish we can go back to putting the blinders back on and just enjoy the songs with virgin ears and ignorantly sing along to the heavy lyrics that a lot of these pop songs had.  Now, with all the hidden meanings of all these songs revealed, the fun of listening to them has disappeared.

Now, we’re just stuck with listening to all these crappy songs with crappy lyrics sung by crappy singers.

RIP GM.